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Za’marie 🕷️'s avatar

I literally thought about this on the train yesterday. I thought about what my life would be like if I strayed from routine. The routines we have create a specific structure that we know our lives to be. So by nature, doing something completely different alters how we experience life. If You get to campus at the same time every day you’ll see the same people , and experience the same day essentially every time you go. But if one day of the week you spontaneously go 3 hrs ahead or 3 hrs behind you’ll see a whole new set of people and experience the day much differently. It’s something interesting to consider. So I feel very aligned collectively, knowing that this essay was written and gave a personal perspective about the topic.

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Caroline Beuley's avatar

Yes! I totally agree with this. Oftentimes I feel that new commitments begin as rituals — things that I legitimately enjoy, but the longer I do them, and the more I feel obligated to do them, the more they become a rote routine, just something else I have to get done in my day. I think your commitment to listen to what actually feels additive is great advice. Forcing yourself to do things is a quick way to go from ritual to routine!

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